Gentle Teaching calls on us to keep our intentions focused on the expression of unconditional love. This love involves a rainbow of feelings including respect, honor, nobility, and kindness. A big part of this expression is to be with the person, especially at the beginning, with no other agenda than simply being with the person. This is the first step. This might mean making sure that our mere presence expresses our kindness. Many individuals cannot stand us, let alone trust us. It is not because we might have done something unkind; it is because we are just another caregiver in a a long line of caregivers and not any better than the averaged out stereotype of “a caregiver”—grabbing, demanding, insisting, cold, bossy, and perhaps even mean. Our challenge is to become a new and loving definition of a caregiver, not just a number, but a live, giving, warm, and sweet companion. At this point, the person’s memories are atrocious and, thus, we need to shower the person with unconditional love to cut through the old memories. The more we do this during his/her good moments, the more likely the person will accept us when anger arises.