It took me a long time to feel comfortable using the word “love.” I knew that was what we had to do , but I felt ill-at-ease using the word. One day I decided to use it because it dawned on me that love was what those whom we serve actually needed. That was the only reason. I do not ask anyone else to use it; I ask that we all reflect on it within the context of our beliefs, desires, hopes, and hunger for it. Hopefully, after reflection and dialog, caregivers will feel comfortable use the word. More important than the word is each of us discovering our personal way of expressing it, whether we say love or not. It is vital that we discuss this issue and find our comfort zone. It is not just some verbal nicety; it is the cornerstone of who we are and what we do.

Love has other components such as human warmth, being helpful, supportive, and preventive. It is a word we should not fear or be embarrassed about, Others have referred to love as noble and embracing. The meanings and implications can go on and on. A primary aspect to love is that it is unconditional. No one has to earn it; it is simply given and given for whom each is, not for what any person does.