Once feeling loved, the child or adult begins to have a deepening sense of warmth toward others—a smile when seeing a caregiver, cheerful words or sounds, a twinkle in the eye. The man in the homeless shelter who has no material goods begins to think “I am somebody because my care givers see me as somebody!” As the person begins to feel safe and loved, these feelings then begin to spread out to others. Those who are marginalized begin to reach out to others with their love. Hands become tools for tenderness and embraces. Words become tools for uplifting others. Eyes become windows to the heart